Forum Family help needed! PatriotsDreams needs help. [Archive]

Country Girl 43

10-10-2008, 12:09 PM

Since Patriots thread keeps getting buried, thought I would start a new one.

Ok, many of you know that Patriots had a bad fall and hasn't been able to work due to her injuries. She is tight financially and needs HAY for the winter. If she can't get enought hay for the winter she may have to sell Dreamer. WE DON"T WANT THIS TO HAPPEN!!! She has had Dreamer since he was 5 months old...he is now 3 yrs old. We have all seen how much she has doen with him.

She even helped another forum member out this past year when RR was loosing her ranch. Patriots has been a big help on the forum and I am hoping that everyone can help out.

I am trying to find out WHERE she will be getting her hay from. How much it costs to get delivered and how much she actually needs. She is in Edwardsville, ILL. We were thinking of using PayPal, but I know some of you are leary of that....so...I am trying to coordinate with Patriots, what the final numbers will be.....worst case....I can order and pay for the hay and have everyone send their donations to me AFTER I have paid for it.

She has one person she can get hay from, but he doesn't deilver. The other guy that will deliver is $1 more per bale and charges about $75 to $100 to deliver.

So can we please rally to help her out?

Suzi

10-10-2008, 12:13 PM

Get us some more specfic info about how to get her some funds, and I'm sure we'll help as we can

Jump The Moon

10-10-2008, 12:39 PM

Oh - please pass on my love and best wishes to Patriotz.
I really, wish I could help - but I am a minor, I've just turned 14 and I'm not allowed to do / have any access to what I'd need for this, I wish I wish I wish I could help! I honestly do, I hate this stuck feeling - it doesn't help that I'm in a complete different country too. ((( hugs ))) to Patriotz, good luck, best wishes and I'm so sorry I can't help through this, I'm so sorry!

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 12:42 PM

I'll sticky this for awhile so it doesn't get buried.

Using Paypal, or alternately mailing a check, to funnel money through one person sounds easiest on Patriots.

Remember our due caution reminders since we all just signed up here from the other forum.

Mandzanita

10-10-2008, 12:42 PM

As I said in her other thread I'm in to help with what I can! I'll be waiting eagerly for more info. Country Girl, you're awesome for starting the rally! I can't imagine being in her situation, I'd be just beside myself with fear and pain. Don't worry Patriot's, the forum family is here to help! :)

lovesfortune

10-10-2008, 12:54 PM

I will be checking back for more info!

Mercury

10-10-2008, 12:55 PM

Have her post an ad on her local craigslist. That's what I do. I just post an ad asking for people who have good horse quality hay and is willing to deliver as I don't have a truck or trailer. It's amazing the offers that pop up!

JackieB

10-10-2008, 12:59 PM

I'm in for $25, as I mentioned before. PayPal is easiest for me.

Toodlestoo

10-10-2008, 12:59 PM

I replied on the other post that I'll be glad to help out. Just let us know how to do it. :)

Lakota's Pet

10-10-2008, 01:13 PM

I can help with at least a few bales of hay. Just let me know where to send it. I would be glad to help any way I can.

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 01:35 PM

OK - Here's what I want to propose, just to ensure for everyone's peace of mind that we have some measure of caution on verification of screen identities.

I'd like for Patriots, and whoever you guys choose to handle money and organize this, to help me be able to vouch that you are indeed the same people we all know from over there. The easiest way I can think of to do that is to do a little cross posting between forums. Now... they are frowning on posting links to here over there, or any mention of this forum, and we probably shouldn't push our luck on that or do anything overt. But we can do a secret ninja code type verification, and we'll use JackieB's birthday thread as the place, unless you think of something better.

So - Patriots, Country Girl (or whoever is going to be organizing and handling money) go to JackieB's birthday thread today and, using your old screen name say "Happy Birthday Jackie!" and slap him with this fish smiley:
:trout:

Or just use the one that's over there.

Then report it back here!

What does this prove? It proves that you are the same poster, and you bring with you here whatever authenticity and credibility you had over there. :D And it give me a chance to slap Jackie with a fish a few to several times without actually having to do it myself! Win win. :D What do you all say?

Mandzanita

10-10-2008, 01:38 PM

Haha...I don't find some good 'ole fish slapping. So we do that do or just Patriots and Country Girl? I think I'm gonna answer my own question and say just them....dang I wanted to fish slap :(

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 01:41 PM

I think only those who are going to be receiving money need to do this... there's not a whole lot of risk from those who are sending donations.

And I hate to do it, but having a test of trust this early in the forum's life, I'd like to at least cover us from an opportunist taking advantage of us right off the bat.

It's certainly not any indication I don't trust them, it's just I think there's some responsibility to trust but verify that we are helping the person we want to help!

rums_mom

10-10-2008, 01:45 PM

Sure you do WB, your ulterior motive has been revealed, you just wanna do some :fish slapping:.......:p:trout::eek:

I think this is a wonderful idea...............so just the receiver of the money is to post on JackieB's birthday thread, not people sending money, right? So I don't get to fish slap anyone?:(

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 01:48 PM

doc_western

10-10-2008, 02:02 PM

i may be able to pitch in to buy a bale or two. ill talk to my parents tonight:)
my thoughts are w/ you, PD!!!

Toodlestoo

10-10-2008, 02:17 PM

Ooooooo fun--I'm going go fish-slap JackieB right now!:hysterical:

mlle_beau

10-10-2008, 04:32 PM

I don't have much money but if you get it organized I will see what I can spare!

rockyridge

10-10-2008, 04:38 PM

it is not only good to be so welcomed back but i have also talked with pd and am sending ...she didn't want me too but i said that i am so glad that at this moment i can offer help and that i can never repay what she and everyone did for me....but she was going to receive....i told her how good giving would give to me....

palomino

10-10-2008, 05:00 PM

Im in to send some via paypal- please PM me and let me know where, etc. I would like to help.

vicklynn

10-10-2008, 05:23 PM

I posted over there, but there is NO fish slapping going on, but youll see my message
lol

JackieB

10-10-2008, 05:26 PM

:D And it give me a chance to slap Jackie with a fish a few to several times without actually having to do it myself! Win win. :D What do you all say?

You're so funny! I'll go over and post something about being slapped by a fish to confirm my own identity!

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 05:26 PM

HA! There's no fish there? Rats. I guess I used to get it somewhere else. Well, future folk can post this one. :)

:trout:

Dangit, I can't keep this software from shortening the link!

http://www.baywindfarm.com/forum/images/smilies/trout.gif

Ah well, either click it and copy the URL from the address bar, or right click the one above. :)

JackieB

10-10-2008, 05:34 PM

Right... just those who will be receiving the money. The donors can slap him here if they want. :D

Here's a link to the thread over there: OMG! Look who is having a birthday today! (http://forum.horse.com/tm.asp?m=794625)

Oh, now I understand.

Country Girl, Patriots,
Be sure to check out WB's instructions. I think she has a great idea for keeping us all safe.

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 05:42 PM

I updated my instructions to reflect that there is no fish over there... :rolleyes:

Then I look and he IS still there... vicklynn just didn't see him I guess.

I guess we'll accept either one. :D

Diane of Buck's Hollow

10-10-2008, 05:43 PM

We will keep watching for intructions. Sunday's Man and I certainly want to contribute. :)

vicklynn

10-10-2008, 05:48 PM

I went back and found it, I went r e a l l y s l o w ...lol:doh:

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 05:52 PM

This is probably the weirdest form of internet trolling ever invented... but it makes sense to me. :D

zoel_222

10-10-2008, 05:53 PM

I'd love to help too! I can probably spare $25 or so.

Steelhorserider

10-10-2008, 05:57 PM

Let us know when everything is verified so we can go from there....it is nice to see family help family in time of need.....most of us do not have a lot to spare, but we will give what we can and when it is all put together it will hopefully make a dent in her need for hay.

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 06:01 PM

We'll probably post a clean new thread when we're satisfied with the fish slapping, with concise instructions on how to help.

...If Patriots hasn't just run away because we're just too weird. :D LOL.

vicklynn

10-10-2008, 06:27 PM

Does anyone live near Edwardsville, IL?

Country Girl 43

10-10-2008, 06:34 PM

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 06:39 PM

JackieB

10-10-2008, 06:43 PM

LOL WB.....sorry it took me so long.....had to get some work done and feed the kids, then had company show up.... I posted on the other place....now just waiting for Patriots.

Glad you are on your toes WB....helps to keep everyone honest. I appreciate your help on this.:)

She's authentic all right. My hair at the other place is all matted, covered with fish scales, and stinking to high heaven right now. :)

42many

10-10-2008, 06:45 PM

Ok, ew... :)

I can't spare much with our new bus just starting up, but every little bit counts, right?

Country Girl 43

10-10-2008, 07:15 PM

Hey, anything and everything helps! Once I can get the final numbers, I will let everyone know. Patriots and I are working on a few things, so everyone will SEE receipts and so on. It will probably be easiest, if I can front what funds I KNOW will be coming in, then have everyone just send to me......Once we have it all in place, I will confirm and let you all know, with concrete proof too! :)

Patriots hasn't been back on since this afternoon, so I am waiting for her to call me.....

WashingtonBay

10-10-2008, 07:55 PM

Well, if you're in contact with her by phone, I think I could be satisfied without her having to go slap poor JackieB. That's just as good a vouch.

If you want to make a nice clean thread with specific instructions when you're ready, I'll sticky it.

Country Girl 43

10-10-2008, 09:48 PM

Well, it's late, I need to be up at 4:00AM and work all day. If you don't hear from me till tomorrow night it's only because I am working all day. I will keep everyone posted on what we get finalized. :)

vicklynn

10-10-2008, 09:50 PM

Go to bed will ya already...lol
As you can see, I havent made it either..lol

SedonaThunder

10-10-2008, 11:10 PM

As my grandma would say "I'm so mad right now I could just spit"!:mad: (Why spit? I never figured that out:huh:) I was just over on h.com and I ran across CG's "help" thread for PD... they are being horrible! Ex's comment was incredibly snotty and then I never expected Hunter to stoop like that - I've not seen her be mean before... I am very disappointed, mad and sad all at the same time... you know that feeling when people let you down.:cry:

Anyway, I would like to help with what little we can spare as well so I will keep checking back for the paypal details or check or whatever.

Country Girl 43

10-11-2008, 05:58 AM

Thanks Sedona...I jumped on here real quick to see if Patriots had tried to contact me. I'm off to work but will check back later this evening.

I was really surprised at the comments too....:huh: Patriots played a BIG part in helping RR in her time of need. Plus it shouldn't matter which forum we choose to be on. A friend is a friend and I know she still has friends over at h.com that don't/won't come over here, and that is fine, it's their choice. I just wanted to alert those that are not aware of Patriots situation.

Sundays Man

10-11-2008, 06:17 AM

Country Girl, thanks for all your doing and the rest of you too. Don't let a few turkeys get us off track and loose focus on what's important here, and that's PD and her need for help. Remember the old saying, "no good deed goes unpunished". :huh:

Patriot, if you're tuning in, don't you EVEN think of not letting us have the "privilege" of helping you out. We are here for you and will do all we can.:)

vicklynn

10-11-2008, 06:50 AM

I am in this to help my forum member out.
I hear you about h.com. and some have asked me not to leave.
Im sorry, but THAT was the last straw.
Especially Beth, wow, I know she hasnt replied to any of my posts in some time,
and Im not sure why, but it seemed to me, and a couple other forum members
that were were starting to be a different couple of groups, ya know, the A group
The B group and so on. Well, yesterday sure proved it to me.
So, to you all here at WB, you are now my family forum, I left 2 forums in one post last night.
((Love ya))

vicklynn

10-11-2008, 06:51 AM

Patriot, if you're tuning in, don't you EVEN think of not letting us have the "privilege" of helping you out. We are here for you and will do all we can.

I agree with that 100 percent

JackieB

10-11-2008, 11:29 AM

I've just got four words to say (well, OK maybe a few more, but you'll get the point). God Bless (or Blessings On) Country Girl 43! She's merely encouraging us to show a little bit of the kindness that should be in all of our hearts anyway, but that Patriots absolutely deserves after working tirelessly to help another forum member in a tough spot last winter.

Although we were surprised at a couple of the reactions at the old place, I did see that several members volunteered to help. That's at least a few more bales of hay and bless you for posting over there, Country Girl.

lovesfortune

10-11-2008, 11:58 AM

Any updates yet this morning about where we can send our funds?

zoel_222

10-11-2008, 11:59 AM

As a wise dwarfell once said "that really burns me up!" (sorry bad 80s cartoon reference:D)

What kind of "family" are we if we don't help each other out in times of need? I'm not at all surprised by ex_racer's comments. All she ever seems to do is be rude and negative at everything and everyone.

vicklynn

10-11-2008, 12:12 PM

Country Girl will be working until this evening. So we wont see her until then.
PD hasnt contacted CG yet either, as far as I know.

oursarge

10-11-2008, 12:54 PM

I'm in the same boat as everyone else as far as finances but I can do something. PayPal is fastest but yet if a check is better [Will PayPal take a fee if we all pay by PayPal?] I will send that, as soon as there is information I will do what I can.

I can not even imagine having her having to sell that horse. I know he's her love. I lost my first horse because he died but if I had to sell him because of funds I think I would have died. I hope that everything works out. Those who can help will, I'm staying away from the other forum because my computer dies when ever I go there but it sounds like it's not too pleasant anymore. Not sure why. I find it very sad but not much anyone can do just feel sad that friends there are turning on friends here for a reason I don't understand. I just want everyone to be happy and want PD to be able to keep her boy.

mlle_beau

10-11-2008, 04:40 PM

It is best for me to send a check. Would a money order work? I can do probably 10-15 dollars, MAYBE a little more depending on how things are going when we all send the money.

Remali

10-11-2008, 07:26 PM

Just checking in to see if there were any updates. I am really shocked and sad by a couple of the nasty comments at h.com, that really is too bad. Anyway, I know how tough it is and how sad it is to have to let a horse go.....so maybe I can help out a little bit too, so I will just keep popping back on here and looking for updates. When I lost my mare Kara, and when things got so bad for me earlier this year (Cody and all that), my friends from the forum were there for me....there are so many amazing and kind people out there.

Country Girl 43

10-11-2008, 08:33 PM

Hello Everyone...sorry, I had to work all day....I did get a pm from Patriots and tried to call her. She attempted to work last night, but didn't get through her shift, because of not feeling well. :( Right now she is feeling pretty down. She doesn't want to ask anyone for help. I explained that SHE hasn't asked anyone for anything. With all the responses I have gotten, here and over at the other place, we should be able to set Dreamer up for enough hay to get through the Winter.

I posted my e-mail on the "other" forum since PM's don't work over there.

I just need to find out WHERE the hay will be going and if we have anything left over, maybe get whatever supplements she uses and so on. She is more concerned about Dreamer not getting food, because she can't work right now. I have let her know that WE (forum family) won't let him starve.

Words can't express how I feel on how the Forum Family has come together. It's so heartwarming. We have a friend in need and all are ready to help! I am trying to find someone near Edwardsville, Ill that can help me coordinate, the ordering and delivering of the hay. Once I get her address where to deliver, we can set the whole thing in motion. I will keep you all updated. I can be reached by PM's.

Thanks JackieB for the kind words. I just want to help a friend that has helped many of us at one time or another.

vicklynn

10-11-2008, 08:42 PM

Hey CG, if the moneys cover her hay and there is left over, can we pay board, or at least part of it? That would take her mind off worries for him at least. Just a thought.

WashingtonBay

10-11-2008, 08:46 PM

IMHO... I don't think any leftover money would be wasted no matter which need it goes to.

OK Country... we'll look forward to an update.

JackieB

10-11-2008, 08:48 PM

Thanks, Country Girl 43. Please do emphasize with Patriots that she didn't ask for anything. You asked her if providing some hay for Dreamer might be of help and others of us were certainly thinking along the same lines.

And not only would Patriots do the same for any of us, but she did in a huge way last winter. Those of us who are able to help financially will certainly get at least as much out of helping as Patriots and Dreamer will out of receiving the help. And those who can only send their best wishes either because they cannot spare money or are not allowed (minors) to donate will be doing their part, too.

What's that line from the Beatles song? "In the end, the love you get is equal to the love you give."

vicklynn

10-11-2008, 08:57 PM

IMHO... I don't think any leftover money would be wasted no matter which need it goes to.

OK Country... we'll look forward to an update.
Your right WB. I was just thinking, if she could free her mind of at least one thing, then she could focus on the others. None of it would be wasted. Its all for a good cause.

cloedoll

10-11-2008, 10:11 PM

I can talk to my parents and hopefully I can help out some. Patriots, I hope you start feeling better. Big hugs!

oursarge

10-12-2008, 05:07 AM

No she didn't ask. We all offered. When I first read the post about maybe selling Dreamer I thought OH NO but I had no clue what to even do to help. I've never been good in emergency situations, I'm glad others are and stepped up to organize. I'm sure if it was one of us she'd be there too. There is not one of us who is above what happened to her, it can happen to any of us at any minute of any day. It would be bad enough if it was a horse she wasn't attached to but this is her baby and for her health and his she needs to be able to keep him. I'll be waiting for the next step.

Ms Eddi

10-12-2008, 07:35 AM

Count me in, I know how scarey this is, I thank God that my barn is full of food for my babies. Just let me know how, (I have paypal).
To me this is the greatest of human kindness to help someone (a stranger, basically) to feed their animals. We did get burned once on horse.com with someone so please don't get to upset with the skeptics.

Toodlestoo

10-12-2008, 07:47 AM

I think I put it on the other thread but I think we should pay by paypal or at least send the money to one person. Then you can keep a running total of how much was donated, buy the hay and use the rest for board or however Patriots sees fit! We gotta help her keep Dreamer!!!:)

magayle

10-12-2008, 08:53 AM

i hate to hear of any horse being sold because of the uncertain life it may have...when a horse is clearly loved and well cared for, helpin' to keep it fed thru a temporary crisis sure isn't alot to ask...i'd have different opinions if it were for other necessities....if everyone on this forum committed to just $5 the warm feeling we'de all get knowing this horse has a full tummy thru the cold winter is well worth it....
"ya make a living by what ya get but ya make a life by what ya give"

Country Girl 43

10-12-2008, 09:01 AM

OMG Magayle....that was perfect! I couldn't have said it better!

I'm waiting for Patriots to call me. Will update later when I am back from my daughters gymkhana.

WashingtonBay

10-12-2008, 10:56 AM

OK - I'm going to unsticky this thread so it can sink down and not interfere with a new one you post later.

When I see the new one, I'll sticky it.

Horserider

10-12-2008, 12:00 PM

Remali

10-12-2008, 12:36 PM

I'm with magayle! Good post!

Chavhorse

10-12-2008, 12:58 PM

Magayle....excellent post sums up the whole situation....JUst shown this thread to my non horsy other half....his comment "I guess if you love horses that overcomes everything and you just pitch in and help"

I will do whatever I can do to help out.....just post the Paypal details

Toodlestoo

10-12-2008, 01:06 PM

"ya make a living by what ya get but ya make a life by what ya give"

I LOVE this quote--I'm going to write it down because it is so true!!!

magayle

10-12-2008, 02:15 PM

thanks all...i'm feelin' the love:) i'm really passionate about animals and animal welfare...for all the comfort, patience and unconditional love they give us, our human race sure could step up more for their well being...this situation is a good opportunity to either educate or remind others that our companion animals need us as much as we need them......there certainly isn't a waiting list of lovin' homes wanting to take on the responsibility of a horse...to loose just one lovin' home willing and wanting to provide all this horse needs would be a sad loss for anyone who truly cares about horses....to have it happen only because of a little pocket change explains why our society is such a mess...patriots, i'd be disappointed if you didn't accept the help you need right now.....lots of us really do care about you and your horse...it's the cowgirl way:cowboy:

ownedby7horses

10-12-2008, 03:23 PM

First of all, I have to say that Im glad that I joined this forum, the other one has just gotten rude & insulting. Embarrassing, some of the comments over there.
I wish there was a way I could help out. Do you have to have a VISA for a paypal account? I might be able to send her a few bucks, but I don't have a visa. I don't have a chequing acct either. I really really want to help her out. She's a sweet gal with a horse that loves her unconditionally. Dreamer would never be happy with anyone but patriotz, imho, from what I have seen/read about them in the last months.
I hope there's something I can do to help.

quicktodance21

10-12-2008, 03:27 PM

I think its great that you're all pitching in to help dreamer be able to eat and to help Patriotz keep him. I wish i could help! but I'm a minor, I'm going to talk to my parents though and see if they can spare any money to help Patriotz and Dreamer.

mlle_beau

10-12-2008, 03:29 PM

I wish there was a way I could help out. Do you have to have a VISA for a paypal account? I might be able to send her a few bucks, but I don't have a visa. I don't have a chequing acct either.

I don't have any credit cards or a checking account either, that's why I was asking about sending a money order. You should be able to get one at the bank or the post office.

ownedby7horses

10-12-2008, 03:32 PM

Yes, I can do that! I just worry about sending anything in the mail because CanadaPost sucks!! I don't know if the post service in the States is any better, but CP has a bad habit of losing things in the mail.

mlle_beau

10-12-2008, 03:34 PM

Yeah, the post office in the US is fairly notorious for that too, lol.

Blue

10-12-2008, 04:06 PM

I'm going to try to send in some money, I don't have a job so it might not be much, but I just got some money from the horse consignment store and I can take some old clothes to the Plato's Closet.

mlle_beau

10-12-2008, 04:26 PM

I'm going to try to send in some money, I don't have a job so it might not be much, but I just got some money from the horse consignment store and I can take some old clothes to the Plato's Closet.

That's a great idea, I might take some stuff to Plato's Closet too in order to get the money...

PatriotsDreamer

10-12-2008, 04:28 PM

just wanted to say i am here. calling around for hay right now, then supper and calling countrygril after supper and i know where to get the hay! im estatic and in much better spirits today.

WashingtonBay

10-12-2008, 04:36 PM

Glad to hear it... this thing will come together...

Thanks for the fish :)

PatriotsDreamer

10-12-2008, 05:17 PM

OK guys here we go. First and foremost, thank youe everyone for the suggestions, prayers, wishes, friendship, help and encouragement that you have given me. I have decided i am going to do what i can to keep Dreamer. I thought keeping him would be selfish of me, but someones post about how much it would affect Dreamer too is what really got me. I didnt even think about that part, i thought i was being selfish keeping him. But as you all know, he is the horse that quits eating when i go on vacation, what would happen if i sold him and was gone? I think i worry too much about everything but hey what can i say.
I attempted to work last night. I lasted until close but it literally took every ounce of everything i have to stay and was totally exhausted by the end. This is also why i missed countrygirls phone call. I made 78, and put 40 in my gas tank, the rest will go in the bank to go to bills. As soon as i have enough for what dreamer needs i am definately waiting to work as my doc wasnt thrilled that i was going to work whether he released me or not and said i shouldnt even being attempting to work for atleast 4-6 more weeks. Its funny what you will put yourself through for the things you love.

I have 7 1/2 bales left of hay as of today. I called around for hay tonight. I found a guy off of craigslist located a half hour from me that has horse quality hay. The highest is like 5 a bale and has some for 4.50. I felt totally comfortable with what he was saying over the phone, and am going to look at it tomorrow. Ill pick up a couple bales of what i think dreamer will eat( they said they will load it, i can have my b/o unload the few bales but dont want him to do more cause he is over 70 but in good shape though), just so we know Mr. picky will eat the stuff. We are going to talk about how much delivery will be tomorrow in person, i am going to tell him my sitaution in person and see if we cant work somethiong out but he is almost an hr away from my barn though.
Countrygirl when you see this, i tried to call you a couple times in a row, but it wasnt ringing when i would call so i dont know if it went through or not??? you may have a couple missed calls from me, sorry. when you see this call me!

As soon as countrygirl and i talk about some stuff and work it out, we will post more on specifics and what not.

palomino

10-12-2008, 05:24 PM

Let us all know the paypal details!!

Remali

10-12-2008, 05:41 PM

I am so glad it is all coming together, and I am very happy you are keeping Dreamer!

moka

10-12-2008, 05:42 PM

Yes, I would love to help and paypal would be fine.

Country Girl 43

10-12-2008, 07:55 PM

OK....Patriots and I FINALLY talked on the phone today! It's coming together! She is going to meet the hay guy in the morning, then get back to me. I was thinking about Paypal and for those who REALLY want to use Paypal I can send an invoice via e-mail, however, Paypal does charge to receive money though. So....if it is OK with everyone, I would just have all donations come to me and I can cut a large check to Patriots. This way, if there are any "weird" people out there, funds are coming to a neutral address and not near Dreamer...if you know what I mean.

If everyone is comfortable with that let me know. You can PM me and I will give you my address. I won't post it on the forum for obvious reasons.

Patriots, I am glad you will accept our help.....I know you didn't ask for help, but every now and then we all need help sometime. We are here for you and Dreamer!! Hang in there girl!

lovesfortune

10-12-2008, 07:57 PM

I guess I was just thinking Paypal would be easier to get the money to her sooner? But I don't know how all that works. I will PM you tomorrow hopefully once you hear from Patriots. Glad it's coming together!!

ownedby7horses

10-12-2008, 08:24 PM

Im glad that you are keeping Dreamer. He's going to be right where he wants to be. There is a connection between you 2 that is beyond amazing. That horse would walk through fire for you! Keep your chin up & keep looking forward. There are a lot of people who care enough about you & your horse to help keep him right where he belongs & wants to be! I am still trying to think of a way to get $$$ to you without having to rely on CanadaPost! I really want to help you Patriots, as do a lot of other people!

CG, you are also an amazing person! What a great friend you are to pull the weight like this for Patriots! God bless both of you!

Dakota Sunrise

10-12-2008, 08:36 PM

I'm so glad you're keeping Dreamer! YAY! xD

I feel pretty bad about writing out a check for only $5.00.:( That's kind of lame... but I really don't have a lot to spare unfortunately; I come from a very poor family and money is tight for me too. But I want to at least help out a little bit! So I'll be pming you soon, CountryGirl, for your address so I can send my donation.:)

JackieB

10-12-2008, 08:44 PM

I feel pretty bad about writing out a check for only $5.00.:( That's kind of lame...

It is not, lame! Don't even say that. Even those who have no money to spare, but are contributing kind thoughts or prayers are helping.

Country Girl 43

10-12-2008, 08:46 PM

Hey Dakota.....that is very thoughtful. $5 will pay for at least one bale of hay! Every little bit helps.

Remali

10-13-2008, 07:05 AM

This is wonderful, good job Country Girl! I just sent you an email. :)

Country Girl 43

10-13-2008, 09:15 AM

BUMP...just keeping this thread up there....:)

lovesfortune

10-13-2008, 09:50 AM

Dakota, if everyone "just donated $5" that would be ALOT of $$$$!! Don't feel bad. Money is tight for everyone, we all do the best we can.

GrungeEquestrian

10-13-2008, 10:14 AM

Well I am a minor so I'll have to talk to my parents about sending some money up to Patriots, I worked over the summer and wouldn't mind giving $20.00. What Patriotz and Dreamer has is very special and I couldn't see him happy with anyone else. I live probably a good 4 hours away from Edwardsville, but I have family down that way and I can see if they know anyone selling horse quality hay..since they are into cattle.

Country Girl 43

10-13-2008, 10:20 AM

Grunge...Prayers and thoughts are welcome too!

Jump The Moon

10-13-2008, 11:39 AM

As I cant send money, I'll send my prayers, good thougts etc. your way, I just wish I could do more, I'm so sorry for letting you down like this... I know I should be able to help, I'm so sorry I cannot.

PatriotsDreamer

10-13-2008, 11:56 AM

Just to update everyone. I went to look at the this morning and brought back a bale for Dreamer to try. I think he will eat it, it seems pretty nice quality. I just wanted everyone to know that is helping me that i am very thankful i have you guys here to support me in times like these. Dreamer im sure is very thankful too. Dreamer and i both just wanted to thank everyone that is helping, and a special thanks to Countrygirl for organizing all this and for all the emotional support she has given me not only over the internet but on the phone last night. It really does mean alot to me.

Remali

10-13-2008, 12:23 PM

I'm just so glad you are keeping Dreamer, I know how hard it is to part with a beloved horse.... I am so happy for you, and we're more than happy to help out in any way we can. Everyone was so wonderful to me when I went thru my tough time, and I am very glad to help out. You and Dreamer belong together.

FoxFireEMT

10-13-2008, 12:34 PM

Okay I'm a little behind or (alot behind) on this whole deal but I'm all about helping out when I can help out! Country I'll PM you & get an addy. I'd rather do that since I'm not a fan or pay pal! My thoughts & prayers also go out to patriots!

Country Girl 43

10-13-2008, 02:29 PM

Just wanted to know if everyone wants to keep this thread going...or start a new one??? The ball is rolling and in place. The PO is closed today, so I will be over nighting some funds to Patriots tomorrow morning. I have received some funds through Paypal from a few people and I am also contributing, so at least I can get a check to Patriots NOW for at least a 1/2 load of hay. Then when I receive the checks from those that are sending checks/MO, I will send a second bulk check to Patriots so she can get the second load.

It's little bit more work, but at least Dreamer will be getting the hay and Patriots won't have to wait till we have the full amount.

Also, anyone want to help reply to e-mails and PM's to give directions on where to send pmts. I have been at this darn computer since 8AM this morning and it is now 2:30PM and I still haven't gotten out to wash the paint off Ladybird.

Let's do this......once I know who can help me out with notifications, I will start a new thread with contact info for me and a second volunteer. It's all coming together.....I just need some help responding to everyone. Then WB can sticky the new thread!

geez I hope all of that made sense.....I am going buggy from being on the computer all day!:doh:

WashingtonBay

10-13-2008, 02:31 PM

Standing by... I'll do whatever you like :)

oursarge

10-13-2008, 03:42 PM

Would you rather a check or PayPal? Just let me know, I can do it either way. I'll keep checking back for a PayPal address for mailing address.

Gypsy Rose

10-13-2008, 03:50 PM

lovesfortune

10-13-2008, 03:56 PM

Country - I can help out. I am home all day most days... send PM's my way and I'll give them your address and info.

PatriotsDreamer

10-13-2008, 04:32 PM

Patriots, with my fixed income, and Gypsy's feed and supplements, I don't even have a dime to spare! But what I have that most people don't, is time to sit at this computer!

Is Dreamer on any supplements? If so, maybe I could help by finding the cheapest way to get them?

If not, maybe there's something else I can do to help?
Its ok, just lend me your friendship and encouragement. Sometimes that goes farther. Dreamer is not on any supplements. I did have him on BOSS but i didnt really see a difference with it and think he did better without it so i took him off of it. now all he is on is strategy which i buy from the feed store right by my house so i save on gas.

I am going to try to get ahold of my friend casey who sold her mule about using her blanket this winter if she still has it. Dreamer has to have a blanket because he will literally shiver. Sadly the one i used last year does not fit him this year .. he is too long now. Im pretty sure she still has it, if not, ill see if my bf's mom has one i can borrow. He just doesnt grow that much of a winter coat! I still have a couple months to get that in line though.

Gypsy Rose

10-13-2008, 05:04 PM

Patriots, what size blanket? Maybe someone has one they can donate?

JackieB

10-13-2008, 05:33 PM

I just wish I could do more, I'm so sorry for letting you down like this... I know I should be able to help, I'm so sorry I cannot.

You're not letting anyone down. Don't be silly, JTM!!! As Patriots mentioned later to another poster, kind thoughts are every bit as valuable. Everyone does what he/she can to help out a friend. You're doing plenty!

shynbvs

10-13-2008, 05:34 PM

Toodlestoo

10-13-2008, 05:38 PM

Patriots--what size blanket does Dreamer need? I have some brand new ones I bought for my TWH's that we never used. I'll send one your way if it's the right size! I forget what brand and sizes I have. I'll go up to the barn tomorrow and look.

PatriotsDreamer

10-13-2008, 05:44 PM

Ill have to have my bo measure him to get the exact size. Ill get back to you on that and try and see if they can do it tomorrow. last year he had a 71 i think and its entirely too small.

Country Girl 43

10-13-2008, 06:34 PM

Oh yay!!! I can tell just by the posts that a weight has been lifted off Patriots shoulders! It's good to see you post with a happier tone! :) I also like your new pics in your photo album.

GrungeEquestrian

10-13-2008, 06:56 PM

Besides my prayers and thoughts I can see if I can mail a money order check! I really want to help out!

Country Girl 43

10-13-2008, 09:56 PM

Ms Eddi

10-14-2008, 05:31 AM

Checks in the mail, sent it yesterday, not alot but every lit bit will help.
And bless your heart for doing this.

Country Girl 43

10-14-2008, 08:58 AM

Thanks MsEddi....it's mostly time involved and I truely appreciate the Forum Family helping out! I just can't imagine Dreamer being anywhere else but with Patriots. Especially because this is a temporary set back for her. That horse is everything to her. They are a team and have a great bond!

magayle

10-14-2008, 09:07 AM

i'd be happy to help ya out with replys for mailing in donations...just let me know what i can do and i'll help ya get 'er done:cowboy:

GrungeEquestrian

10-14-2008, 01:42 PM

GrungeE....I am glad you want to help, but just be sure that your parents are aware of everything. I don't want you getting into any trouble. If it's ok with your parents then fine, but make sure they know what's going on and if they are not comfortable, then don't do anything against their wishes. I don't want any minors getting into trouble.... I am glad that you want to help, REALLY, but it must be approved by your parents.....

Don't worry my parents are too good at punishment for me not to include them. I talked a little with my mom about it her stance is its my money and I can do what I would like with it...within reason. But I still need ask my dad, and if he for some reason doesn't feel comfortable I can always bring my prayers and encouragement to the table.

natisha

10-14-2008, 01:54 PM

Maybe getting a temporary post office box # to send donations to would help free up time. One could just post the box address & PD could pick them up there. That would also be pretty safe.
What name should we make the checks out to? Thanks

Pinky

10-14-2008, 02:06 PM

Well, I've looked into this and I'm not sure if it'll work, but...

You know how on web pages they have like, Google Ads? Well, when you click on one of them; a small amount of money goes to the person who signed up for them (see where this is going? ;)). It could be possible (correct me if I'm wrong) to set up a freewebs page and just cover it in Google Ads and then if everyone from the forum clicks on say..1 link a day it could (possibly..maybe) make quite a bit of $$$.

Just an idea, and I'm probably wrong, so good luck to PD, best wishes and I'm thinking of you :)!

palomino

10-14-2008, 02:28 PM

I sent by PayPal today- hope it helps!!!!!

SedonaThunder

10-14-2008, 02:49 PM

Check is in the mail...:)

PatriotsDreamer

10-14-2008, 04:05 PM

I just wanted to give a little update. Dreamer is eating the "test" bale currently and is cleaning it up well. We had originally planned on getting the first half of hay wensday( tomorrow), i just checked the forcast and its sapposed to rain! I did talk to my brother in law, he is off wensday and thursday this week, and can definately move the hay for me which means we can save the .75 per bale for delivery. Im thinking we will probably do it thursday because its sapposed to be clear that way we dont risk getting the bales wet! You guys have no idea how stoked i am about this. I plan on posting pictures thursday after we get the hay for you all to see!!!

Country Girl 43

10-14-2008, 04:11 PM

Patriots...I sent the first check today! It is from funds that we have received from the Paypal Donations.... You should have it tomorrow..... I'm starting a new thread....:) once I get back from taking my son to football practice.....

Pinky....it's a nice idea, but we need to keep the ball rolling NOW. All that will take time and honestly those ads do take a awhile to generate any kind of income.

I'll do an updated post soon......stay tuned....:cowboy: