why is it?*VENT*

[prissy18]

Ok so everything has gone massive down hill this week. It kinda sucks. Well my grandmas aunt died. I witnessed some stuff i shouldnt have. I participated in some stuff i shouldnt have. I feel like im going down hill. Like i almost got suspended. I lamost got into a fight. Ive snapped on a few people. I just dont know whats wrong with me right now. Well thanks for listening guys

I have been fine for awhile. So thanks for listening. I have church 2marrow and i think im gonna talk to my youth pastor and pray with one of my friends they always help me

[prissy18]

ive been fine lately. i feel fine but things just dont seem right.

[natisha]

I don't know you but maybe, just maybe, you have a natural impulsive nature. You are analysing things now that happened during the week. Perhaps if you had taken a few moments before events occured to analyse potential outcomes things may have turned out differently, the exception of course is the death.

It only takes a few seconds to ask yourself, before you act, how will my actions be perceived, how will I feel later, how can I make this better, will I regret what I am about to do? Stuff like that.

We're all pretty smart after the fact, the trick is to be smart before the fact.

Would you rather have people ask, 'I wonder what Prissy will do?' or "I wonder what Prissy would do?'

Try to be a person people look up to instead of look at. If you know what I mean.

You may also want to look into taking an anger managemant class. They not only help with anger issues but help to handle different situations in a positive manner.

Boy, this sounds like a lecture. I didn't mean it too. Sorry

[prissy18]

Thanks. Yeah i want people to look at me as insperation. Thanks natisha

[sugarsgirl]

Hang in there Prissy, we're here for you.

[prissy18]

thanks guys

[Gypsy Rose]

Bummer you've had an off week. I've been there a lot lately, where no matter what you do, you just can't seem to have a normal, peaceful week- something's always got to change and upset the normalcy you try so hard to achieve. If you try to please one person, it seems like you upset another. Try to make plans, and they keep getting changed. I'm learning the hard way that you can't make everyone around you happy. Therefore, I'm trying to learn to go with the flow, and be more flexible. Not an easy achievement for someone who likes a fairly set routine, lol!

[prissy18]

Thanks gypsy. Things are getting better. I am just happy 2marrow is sunday and i am meeting up with a few of my friends and praying together. They all know some of my past witch makes them understand me now. But thanks guys

[rockyridge]

i hope that you receive answers to your prayers....i think you are turning to the right place for a start....god bless

[Steelhorserider]

Sounds like you just had a bad week....go to church and try to refocus yourself for the next week. Don't dwell on what you did that was wrong last week...try to get through one day at a time and stayed focused for that one day....pretty soon you will have put those days into weeks....good luck.

[prissy18]

Church helped a tone. We got a group together of me and a few of my friend sand our churches intern got in a cirlcle and prayed we all took turns. This was a big step out of my zone. It helped alot tho.I am feeling much better 2day.

[cowgirlup@idaho]

Can you stay in touch with someone from your church during the week? Even a phone call for a few minutes can help. It seems to be a 'soft place' for you and Sunday to Sunday can be a long time. :grouphug:

[prissy18]

Yup. I have a few of them that said i could call anytime. Actually it may be weird but church is like home for me

[westmanfarrier]

I used to have a very short fuse and bursts of fury. One thing that helped a ton was a good friend of mine would stop me and say, "Dude, is this going to matter in an hour, a day, a month...?" Funny, usually the answer was it wasn't going to bother anyone but me, and it wasn't going to matter in an hour in the big picture. As I started my business and met a lot more people, I realized there were a lot bigger things out there than my petty rants.

My wife's father is battling brain cancer right now, he is in a fight for his life, literally. If you get upset over what someone says or does or if you think you need to save face for something, just think of what he must be going through in perspective. He is very upbeat and is looking forward to starting radiation and chemotherapy today, he is fighting, he is positive. I want to be that kind of guy.