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alittleoffkey
02-04-2009, 08:16 PM
... so I can get a JOB! :mad: No male anywhere in the vicinity of north Georgia can complain about not being able to find a job - because apparently all the jobs are reserved for them. For the record - this vent is Will's fault, because he suggested I post it (maybe so he didn't have to hear it again :p).

Now, this may be a common occurrence - but I was raised by a family who knows that women are just as good as men. We can speak without being spoken to, aim a gun and shoot, AND we can work on a farm - all without testicles might I add! My Papa raised me to know that I can do a days work just as well as any male can... because I can. My father's side of the family is another story (on that side young ladies don't ride horses or wear jeans - filthy habits)... but I'm close to my Mom's side.

It all started Saturday, when I joked to one of my father's friends (who owns a coffee shop) that he should hire me (he was busy). He told me he couldn't afford to, but when it gets to that point, he preferred to hire men, so he doesn't have to "worry about leaving them alone". :huh: Then he said that he admitted that "sounds chauvinist". No, that is chauvinist - and pretty darned stupid. He has such good coffee, too. :doh: Oh well, there are other coffee shops who might appreciate my patronage - who do hire women.

This week I called a man who had advertised at my college that he needed someone to help pick up eggs at a commercial egg farm. Nana and Papa had a commercial laying house for 30 years - guess who helped them pick up eggs until they retired? My Mom, my aunt and ME. The man asked if I was inquiring for my boyfriend. I told him no, I had experience picking up eggs, that I knew what the work was like and I already completely lack a sense of smell - he told me he didn't hire women. That's fine, I don't need to work for someone who'd view me as less anyway.

Later that day I found an ad at a local tack shop - someone was going on a trip and needed their horses fed. I called, a woman answered - and I asked a few questions about her horses. She answered them pleasantly enough, then asked if I was calling for my boyfriend. :huh: I told her no, I have four horses- three of which I've raised myself, have had horses for nearly a decade, and I know how to care for and handle them. She told me she preferred for a man to feed her horses. :eek:

Today, I heard two women talking about how one of them needed an exercise rider for her horse and she just couldn't find the right one. I'm kind of related to one of them, so I walked over and said hi. My relative mentioned "don't you have horses, she's looking for someone to ride", and I said yes, then offered to ride the horse. She declined, informing me that this particular horse required either herself or a man to ride. :rant: Seriously though, I probably don't want to ride that particular horse anyway. :rolleyes:

So, if you're male and in northern Georgia - buddy I can find you a job! Sorry that vent was so long... it's amazing how stupid people really are. And since when can't boyfriends call to inquire about their own stupid jobs? Really. :rolleyes: And yes, I do feel better now. :cool:

If you read all that, then here's your cookie!
http://www.bfeedme.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/cookie.jpg

zoel_222
02-04-2009, 08:20 PM
That is SO incredibly stupid.


gah. :mad:

WashingtonBay
02-04-2009, 08:24 PM
You think only five people are going to read your thread? ;)

I don't understand some of those. There are times where men make the most sense. Feed store bucking hay all day for example. There's just not many women that can buck 110 pound bales all day.

But the horse jobs and the coffee shop... I don't get it. Those are jobs where I'm surprised you'd get that answer. In fact... Male riders and horsemen can be a little hard to find sometimes!

Annie&Dixie
02-04-2009, 08:29 PM
Wow. That is just ridiculous.

It's really hard to find a job on top of that, too.

:mad::mad::mad:

alittleoffkey
02-04-2009, 08:30 PM
Exactly! And in the discussion with the woman, she said that the horses are round-bale fed and wouldn't have to be re-round baled until she got back. That they just have to be brought into their stalls and fed their grain rations once a day! We're not even talking moving hay!

The funny thing is, every tack shop and feed store I've talked to has told me that they would hire me... if they had the cash. For most of the feed stores around here, the owners are the only ones working anymore.

Haha WB, I'll restack the cookies when we run out - I promise. Mom just made a fresh batch. :D

elevenelevenxo
02-04-2009, 08:47 PM
Yeah....that's definitely discriminatory. Couldn't those businesses get in trouble for that?

I understand your frustration. Around here, it seems like you have to be some plastic blonde bimbo to get a job anywhere. A friend of mine worked for Nationwide Insurance and he told us once about how a supervisor of his hired mainy only women who he thought were "hot" rather than people who were actually qualified for the job. I'm sure that happens a lot....and I'm sure women do it in regards to men as well. That doesn't make it right though.

Good luck with the job hunt. Seems to be a few of us on here joining you....

alittleoffkey
02-04-2009, 08:49 PM
I think the coffeeshop guy could... but he's really the only one (and he's not actually hiring right now). The rest are just farm labor jobs.

RipSpark
02-04-2009, 08:56 PM
That is so stupid! Sorry to hear your job troubles. I would be so mad, grrr!!! I don't get any of those. Shoot I would think they would rather have a girl at a coffee shop. And what does it matter who takes care of your horses? Girls can take care of horses just as well, shees.... I wouldn't care either way but if I had my choice of a guy or a girl coming over for the horses I would take the girl. Probably more responsible :innocent:

BTW the cookie was wonderful. ;)

rocknK
02-04-2009, 09:46 PM
Stay in school, get all the education you can lay your hands on & you won't have to go looking for work, it will find you! Good luck & don't ever let the SOB's get you down!

JackieB
02-04-2009, 10:20 PM
Sorry you had to hear that nonsense, ALOK.

You should have said to the egg guy who asked if you were inquiring for your boyfriend - "Why do you have a Jurassic Park pterodactyl egg farm going there? Because unless your hens are laying dinosaur eggs that weigh 70 lbs apiece, I'm pretty sure that I can lift the out of the nest."

Equine_Woman
02-04-2009, 11:04 PM
Oh my god! Those cookies look good!!! You must have worked all day in the kitchen where you belong making those for all of us. The menfolk will be so proud. :doh: Sorry you've met with such old fashioned thinking. Their loss that's for sure.

alittleoffkey
02-05-2009, 07:49 AM
Haha EW and JackieB. :D Thanks for that. :)

I'm generally never at a loss for words... but when I deal with complete morons, I can't form any type of proper (or improper) response, and I just hang up. :rolleyes:

westmanfarrier
02-05-2009, 09:12 AM
I read everything because I just want a cookie. :innocent: