I think I need a hug

[HeartofSteel]

I don't normally do this but I need a little vent/hug. My boyfriend and I are officially broken up. I dont think I have ever mentioned him before but we have been dating for 4 yrs. We have been off and on ALOT in the last 4 months and the last time or two have been really hard on me. Since then I haven't felt the same for him, I don't want to pretend and I won't pretend. I called it off tonight, he is very upset and wanted to try to work things out but I just couldn't do it anymore. Bah, frustrating!:doh:

Sorry Zoe for kinda not talking much on messanger, I should have told you what was up cause thats who the phone call was.

[Arrow]

Aww--I'm so sorry. ((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))

[FatSpottedAppy]

I am so sorry.. :( (((HUGS)))

I hope you feel better soon.. Break ups can be hard...

[Cat]

I'm so sorry. {{{HUGS}}}

[peace_baby]

Awwww, I'm sorry you have to go through that. *hugs*

I know it's hard, but if it helps you're a pretty, smart girl and there are plenty of fish in the sea. :)
Your forum family is here for you.

P.S. My most recent ex and I broke up after 3 years a few months ago so if you wanna talk, you can PM me.

[Fork]

((((((*hugs really tight*)))))) I just had the worst 4 hour fight with my boyfriend. :( On my birthday. :doh:

+ You can vent to me as well, if you need. :) I'm here for you!

[luv2show]

Aww I'm sorry hun ((hugs)).

If you ever need to vent or talk, PM. I'd love to!

[JackieB]

I'm very sorry that you are suffering, HPH. Time has a way of healing all wounds.

[valleyrider]

Sorry to hear you are sad:grouphug: I hope things work out for you.

[HeartofSteel]

Thank you everyone, so far I'm doing good. We'll see as time goes on though. It means so much that I have my forum family

[zoel_222]

Oh man I'm sorry. :( Super hugs! :grouphug: If you need to talk you can give me a call anytime :)

[Vegashorselady]

So sorry. Breakups stink, just take it one day at a time.

[cloedoll]

Awe, I'm so sorry Alissa. :( **BIG HUGS** If you need to vent, talk or anything just PM me..

[Me'N'Chic]

I am soooo sorry hun--(((((Alissa)))!! The right one will come along one of these days; in the mean time enjoy your two wonderful horsies!!

[HoustonFarrier]

One door closing, has a way of opening other doors...

Hang in there.

Steve

[Gypsy Rose]

I'm sorry!

[vicklynn]

Im sorry you are going through this. Time will heal your pains.
You are strong and can deal with this. ((HUGS))

[dame_wolf]

{{{hugs}}} I'm sorry but it does sound like you needed the break.

[Blue]

Aw, man, I'm so sorry. =( I know how rough that is. *BIG HUG* Feel better soon!

[talent06]

I know how you feel. Theres no other feeling like it. Ive been broken up for 4 days now, and it has been so hard. Everything reminds me of him. I had to wear the dress to easter that I wore with him on Valentines day, I turned on my ipod yesterday and the first thing that comes up on shuffle is the concerto he wrote me (he's a solo violinist), I cant hear violin music anymore without thinking of him, he used to play for me all the time. I've found the only thing that makes it better for a while is to distract yourself. Through yourself into something that takes your mind off of it. Work out, tennis has been a huge help for me. But I still cry myself to sleep everynight.

But we're women! We are strong and we things will be ok. I keep hearing that it will make me stronger, thats what I'm hoping for.

[carla]

(((((((((BIGHUGS)))))))))))... we love you!! And remember-- all good things must come to an end- to make room for TERRIFIC things!