OMG, please can I vent?

[cloedoll]

I need to vent, badly, before my head like pops of & explodes.

At Horse.com you guys might remember me making threads about this girl, my neighbor? She did lovely things like start fights with me (yes, physical sometimes), talk about me behind my back, start insane rumors, turned my sister against me, called me a spoiled b!tch to HER grandmother (then her grandmother called me and called me that again :rolleyes:), be my friend at the beginning of the day then just unleash in crazy text messages and phone calls by night - ya know, typical, stupid girl stuff. Well I finally ended our friendship last summer after I couldn't take her...promiscuity anymore, she slept with her "best friend's" fiance and gah, she has done SO much before that (really, you guys probably wouldn't believe me if I told you), no, I'm sorry, I didn't want to be around her...I eventually forgave her but then she slept with the SAME guy again. OK, ya made the same mistake twice so I ended it. She then went to move in with her biological father so we are no longer neighbors.

So now that's a bit of background. My entire family ADORES her, my mom treats her like a daughter, same goes for my dad and even my aunts, grandparents, etc. loveeee her so she tends to come along on family things (Easter, Thanksgiving, just spending the weekend at my grandma's, etc.). So there's even a bit more of background.

Onto "now." I ended out friendship again months ago after I found out she lied to me -- we were back to best friends (so I thought) and she totally turned my entire family against her other "family" (not her biological father but she has another "family" that adores her like ours does) because she didn't want us to find out from this other family that she slept with her friend's ex in that friend's house and took a pregnancy test. Why she didn't tell me, I don't know, she's done worse and it's not like I ever got mad at her...but anyways, prom is coming up and she was suppose to be spending two nights at our house (before prom + night of prom) and I was like fine I can be civil and mature - no biggy. My mom talked to this girl and said the same thing to her so it was all under control. She decides to text me and COMPLETLY goes off on me, I think the text is 7 pages...I replied VERY maturely and handled it quite well. She didn't like that, so she replies with this nasttty message and yeah, I called her something I shouldn't have because I really did not care - I don't care for this girl one bit, she can say any insult to me and it really won't effect me because she means nothing to me - I didn't even want to reply to her but I was having a very very bad day and yeah, I didn't need that crapp. After that text though she would continue sending SUEPR long texts and I would just reply with like a sentence because it was pointless. So after all this my mom gets home from work, this girl calls (I knew she would) and she's like bawling and telling my mother how awful I am and I just gave my mom my cell phone, I'm like I have nothing to hide from you, she's making up half the stuff (and when my mom was on her way home from work I told her what was going on and yeah I called this girl something) and my mom even saw the things this girl said but she didn't say anything to her, she just comforted her - I'm used to that, it happens allll the time. But anyways, she just told this girl to not text me because I'm just going to hurt her more. :rolleyes:

So that happens, and guess who texted me this morning? Yep, thee girl. She freaked otu on me AGAIN. I just told her to stop texting me and she went off again & she won't stop. GAHHH. I'm not even replying, she just keeps on texting. And I saw her MySpace last night, she has what a b!tch I am and how 'f'd' up I am allll over it, it's quite lovely so now I'm getting even more text messages from people I could care less about. :doh: And she said I was emo for being homeschooled, I'm just thinking, no, I'm homeschooled because I'm so fed up with this stupid girl crap! I got it all the time, much worse than this and I go to school to LEARN not to be told what a b!tch I am.

Oh and to make it better, my sister totally sides with this girl, she always has and she was yelling at me last night...I'm just thinking, you know what this chick has done to me and your MY sister, she should at least be there for me...I guess that's too much to ask?

OK if you read all that, thank you, if not, I feel better for just typing it all out. xD

WB -- sorry if this is inapproperiate or anything, I just saw a few other drama/advice threads and if anything, I just needed to vent..

[Tatesgram]

Cloe, I'm sorry this is happening to you. As a mother, I can't imagine not siding with my daughter and as a sister, well, it would be the same. Family first. Sounds like this girl has some emotional problems, she could very well be bi polar. Feel sorry for her, but for the health and well being of your family, she needs to get help and, stay away from your family. If I were your mother, that's what I would tell her, that it would be best if she didn't communicate with our family again.

Hope it works out.

[vicklynn]

First off a GREAT BIG ((HUG))
I am so very sorry you are dealing with this, AND your mom feels sorry for her, not you.
That just sucks.
I dont get it, you showed her the text messages and she still feels for her.
Id tell the little B to stay away from my family if I were your mom.

I have a co worker with Bi-polar who did turn some co workers against each other, all was found out and the co workers are friends again, and the Bi-polar B is gonna be gone sometime in the near future.
She needs to watch her ps and qs, she has pissed off ALL the day shift employees, she is even threatening the business.

I hate women/girls like that. Drama queens is all they are. Looking for attention in negative ways.

[cloedoll]

I'm suppose to be the one with bipolar! Haha, different story though.
Thanks guys, I mean I know I was in the wrong when I called her a name but I've ALWAYS stayed mature and was the bigger person...and I did that again today. I just got off the phone with my mom and sent her all the texts, took screenshots off the MySpace junk (just in case she decides to change it) and my mom just said she'd handle it and for me not to respond to her. She actually sounded kinda mad! That's a first! I'm calling my aunt (who I love so much, she loved this girl like a niece too but luckily my aunt believes in the family first thing and she'll side with me after I fill her in) and I'll most likely be staying over at her house when this girl comes for prom but still, I wish she'd (the girl) stop texting me and trying to start stuff! Bleh. Oh and I'm laughing now because she is saying how I'm the drama queen, how I think the world revolves around me and how I'm a mean spirited person and other stuff that probably isn't approperiate to post - uh, yeah, okay...

thanks for the hugs & advice guys! :):):)

[cloedoll]

Oh I forgot to mention I've been dealing with this for about two years now. Ugh! She just texted me again. :banghead: Oh and I tried to call her the other day whenever we were fighting but she wouldn't answer! I knew she wouldn't say half the things she said through text even over the phone.

[vicklynn]

Not all bi-polar people are like my co worker. Heck when my sis is on the right meds, she is actually someone Id hang out with, when shes not on the right meds, all he!! breaks loose and you DO NOT want to be near her.

I am glad you are putting the info out there to your family,and not taking it in all yourself. Someone needs to back you.
More ((HUGS))

[cloedoll]

Oh totally forgot to mention this but whenever we weren't friends she'd leave comments on my YouTube videos saying how I didn't deserve the horses and she'd come and take them because they loved her more. When I sold Keidas she said I was a cruel women (well, not those words) and she deserved him, not me and how I was selfish. She said she's a better rider and how she could train Cloe and blah blah blah...I'm like, you don't even know how to ride (she's never had a lesson)...:huh:

For example, I just looked at one of Taylor's older videos and this girl left a comment saying:

I will see them but I will not get to be with them anymore so I wont get to see how they are doing. I dont want me and Caitlin not talking interfer with me and the horese

What does she mean interfere? They're MY horses, lmao...

^ I mentioned that because now she's bringing up the Keidas thing...and I just felt I'd share another example of her...oddness.

Thanks Vicky! :) (((hugs)))

[vicklynn]

Get Keidas REALLY hot on some sweet feed. Put her on him....LOL

[cloedoll]

LOL!!! If only I still owned him! :p

[gaited07]

Cloe, I'm sorry this is happening to you. As a mother, I can't imagine not siding with my daughter and as a sister, well, it would be the same. Family first. Sounds like this girl has some emotional problems, she could very well be bi polar. Feel sorry for her, but for the health and well being of your family, she needs to get help and, stay away from your family. If I were your mother, that's what I would tell her, that it would be best if she didn't communicate with our family again.

Hope it works out.


I'm with Tatesgram. Family first ALWAYS.
It sounds like your mother is seeing the truth of the situation and things may unfold real soon.

Good luck and lots of ((HUGS))

[oursarge]

I'm really sorry, normally I don't get involved with this stuff but I honestly know how you feel on this one. When I was a teenager mine was with a family member. My parents thought this girl did no wrong. If I even THOUGHT about doing 1/2 the things she did I'd still be grounded and I'm 53!!!!! She was never mean to me just always acted like I was not good enough. She'd come to stay with us for weeks at a time and at first it was horrible but then as she was there she'd get nicer but then the next time I'd see her after she got home she'd be "superior" again. She was a beautiful girl, she could knock any of these models off of the runways that's how beautiful she was, when she'd visit the boys would be lined up in the driveway to look at her. I knew they weren't there for me! They were my friends but they thought they were in love with her! She needed a councelor back then and her parents just laughed this stuff off and my mother ALWAYS MADE EXCUSES FOR HER. She needed help and I always said it.

The sad thing now is that she's had a horrible life with drug addiction, a few bad marriages, she now weighs 300 lbs and has Bozo the clown colored hair. When her father died I walked right past her, I did not even know her. With all of this she was still trying to make me feel bad about myself or my house. She was with a rich man for awhile [Her life was better then and she was actually nicer than before but still not the nicest at times. She could not comprehend why I didn't have the things in my house they had in theirs? Because we aren't stealing from people which we found out her boyfriend was doing. The law was after him for awhile.] and had EVERYTHING and we live on a budget, we put down a new kitchen floor and she made fun of it because it's vinyl. We can't afford imported marble or what ever she had! Then she could not understand why we only have one main bathroom and a 1/2 a bath, that we should each have our own showers etc. It was always something though. That big life didn't last long and now she's living where she can and it's very sad. She'd call and get me so nervous I couldn't even talk to my husband when I hung up from her. I finally told him if she calls tell her I'm in the barn or dead pick one! One night one of my best friends called and he answered the phone and told me it was my cousin and I was so ripped at him then I said "hello" and it was my friend so I was happy and we laughed about it since she had been hearing about my cousin for years.

We are both 53 now and still no matter what she does wrong, the men, the drugs, no matter my mother was still makes excuses for her. It's like she did no wrong in my mother's eyes but if she finds one thing wrong in my house or about me that's all I har about! I say my cousin needs help, she needs a good shrink and not all these pills shoved at her but my mother just feels sorry for her. At some point she needs to take responsibility for her own life and FINALLY after all this time my mother is starting to agree with me. What is scary I see a bad end for her and I don't want that because when she is nice she's fun, it's almost like she has a split personality and I'm sure the drugs don't help. They are prescription drugs so all are legal they just don't agree with her.

Not to make this about me but I just wanted you to know that it seems there is drama everywhere. Teenage drama is the worst. Since your family loves her that makes it worse for you since you are thrown together even though you would rather not be just like in my case, I had issues with her staying with us but my parents were all for it. My husband is a teacher and he'll come home and ask "Why are girls so mean to each other?" and I told him I have no idea but sometimes the sad thing is that those mean girls grow up to be mean women and that's why except for a certain few females my friends have always been guys.

I hope you'll straighten it out, it would be very nice if you could avoid her but it seems like you can't. Has your family seen the stuff she's written about you? If not maybe show them and that will change their mind? Teenage years are hard enough with out all the drama especially when you are the one trying to avoid the drama. Good Luck!

[cloedoll]

I HATE when people call me 'sweetheart, babe' and that junk...or at least when soemone MY age says it. She's now trying to convince me I was talking about her via text and accidently sent her this nasty text - I only talked about her to one person and that was via 'ze phone, not text. Now she's just being desperate and pathetic...

thanks gaited ((hugs))

[cloedoll]

Thanks for the post oursage! :) It's kind of the opposite for this situation I guess, she's always been jealous over me and I think she does the promiscuous stuff because she thinks it is something she has "over me" and thinks it makes me jealous or something because I won't do *that* stuff (I guess for me I always make friends with guys really easily and she has to "do stuff" to get them to like her)...for example, she just randomnly texted me saying she had a threesum (sorry sorry if that's not okay to post, WB, I'm just showing an example, please delete it if you need to) and I was like, ok? And she said, "aren't you jealous?!" And I said, no do whatever makes you happy but try not to catch anything in the process and she is like, ARENT YOU JEALOUS?! Gah, this is the stupid stuff I'm talking about. That was the first one I replied to and yeah it wasn't the best reply but I am just so fed up with these texts!

Oh and yes, I have always told my mom everything as it happens, showed her all the texts, I even record phone calls from her just in case.

[Horseaholic]

Call your cell phone carrier and block her number. You don't need her drama or her harassment. I'm sorry your dealing w this alone.:( I hope your mom sees this girl for what she's worth. Oh and ps if you do go to your aunt I'd lock your bedroom door so she can't get to your things. Good luck

[allie0]

Mean spirited? YOU?
HA
something I cannot believe. I've delt with girls that have been so mean to me before, its a good thing I have my GCSE's soon, this is the last compulsary (sp?) year of high school, I'm only sixteen but its kinda different here.. I'd love to get away from it all!

That girl Caitlin actually sounds like someone MAD. I'm sitting reading this wondering "how much worse can this get?" then I read the next line or you post a follow up post, thats harrassment her sending text messages etc.. And to cover her myspace in that stuff? I'm not sure if I would call it cyber-bullying or not.. Maybe I would. You are so mature over this and you're a year younger than me, if that was me I'd be in pieces, I hate people having-a-go at me.. I can't handle it (because I'm a wimp :D)

And puhh-leasee, leaving comments on your YT, how IMMATURE. "your horses love me more yada yada" aye right they do. I may not have met you, Cloe and Keidas, but what you've done with Cloe is beyond amazing, and what you did to turn Kiedas around to be that gorgeous english horse is remarkable.

"When I sold Keidas she said I was a cruel women (well, not those words) and she deserved him, not me and how I was selfish"

No-one deserved that horse more than you did, and come to think of it, no one deserves Cloe as much as you do. Does this girl even RIDE?
She can hardly interfere with you or your animals..

Just to annoy her, be as sweet as can be with her.. like really really nice =D I do that to some people and they really hate it xD
And you're going to stay at your aunts, I don't mean to worry you, but aren't you a lil worried about leaving Clo there with her being there. I don't mean she'll do anything but she may start spinning tales like "Cloe and me had a great time when you were away yada yada.."

SORRY for the uber long post!

[vicklynn]

I HATE when people call me 'sweetheart, babe' and that junk.
Man, I call everyone sweety or hon....
Vick notes not to call Cloe hon anymore...lol

[cowgirlup@idaho]

This girl is not stable. She wants your life. I would say she is a Borderline Pesonality Disordered, or in a more common description, a sh** stirrer. It will always be drama with her as the victim, gathering as much attention and focus on her as possible. You are the chosen villain, because she wants your life, your home, your family, your horses. Never respond to her texts, emails, myspace, or phone calls. She will continue to work on your family until they no longer serve her purpose.
In the mental health profession, they are difficult at best as clients with little to no progress.

You are on the hot-seat right now in her world. She will gravitate to another victim if she can't get a response out of you. It will take time, unfortunately.

[cloedoll]

Man, I call everyone sweety or hon....
Vick notes not to call Cloe hon anymore...lol
Nooo! it's totally fine when you do it, your one of my forum mommas so i dont mind one bit! lol But coming from a 16-yo girl that wishes I was dead, it's a wee bit annoying haha.

Alice -- i dont even know what to say, that was a wonderful post, you're such a great friend! :):) that is a very very good point, ugh, i so dont want to see her...i'll have to think about this one, thanks for thinking of that though because i never would've!

shadyhill -- you can do that?? i had no idea, i'm soo doing that. this is just getting ridiculous. and yes, if i do go, i'm definitely locking my room...she tried to steal my clothes & perfume before! but she doesnt even wear the same size as me??? lmao.

[cloedoll]

This girl is not stable. She wants your life. I would say she is a Borderline Pesonality Disordered, or in a more common description, a sh** stirrer. It will always be drama with her as the victim, gathering as much attention and focus on her as possible. You are the chosen villain, because she wants your life, your home, your family, your horses. Never respond to her texts, emails, myspace, or phone calls. She will continue to work on your family until they no longer serve her purpose.
In the mental health profession, they are difficult at best as clients with little to no progress.

You are on the hot-seat right now in her world. She will gravitate to another victim if she can't get a response out of you. It will take time, unfortunately.

Yikes. =/ Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate all the replies! =) I will try my best not to respond...I wish I could just turn my phone off but we don't have house phones so my cell has to be on & available almost all the time.

[cowgirlup@idaho]

You still have the choice to answer or not to answer. Caller ID tells you who is on the other end. It takes a lot of 'maturity' not to react when someone is purposely pulling your strings. Let's say you go 3 weeks w/o responding to her, then she comes up with something that really breaks the camel's back, and you respond. Even if it's a 3 word response, she's successfully engaged you and it starts all over again as if there was never a 3 week break. One step forward, 10 steps backward. It's tough to endure.

[allie0]

Alice -- i dont even know what to say, that was a wonderful post, you're such a great friend! :):) that is a very very good point, ugh, i so dont want to see her...i'll have to think about this one, thanks for thinking of that though because i never would've!

Hah no problem..
If you are going to stay, make sure you are as sweet as you can possibly be. I know it will probably be REALLY annoying having to be around her, but if you make sure your parents see you being very sincere, friendly and kind, this will confuse her. Be careful not to let you're parents think you are being sarcastic (not that you are.. but.. meh I hope you get me xD!), help her get ready for the prom if she's going, wish her well, try and relate to her (you can still dislike her xD just make it.. unknown to her) I'm sure you've already put loads of effort into being civil, kind, and put a lot of effort into tolerating her. It is difficult especially when you're sister likes her, I understand kinda..

You could easily keep out of her way, make polite conversation, keep around your parents perhaps.. If you have a laptop, plug in some earphones and sit in the same room as them, so she can't make up any stories about you, they'll know she's lying if you've been sitting with them. If she wants to go down to your barn make sure you try and record your conversations (agh.. i'm getting all secret agent here lol) so she can't make up anything again, or set up a camera.

Lastly..
People I didn't like copied pictures of Samson onto their Bebo (social networking site for enlgish/irish etc) and refused to take them down.. even though he was my pony and it was obviousily me riding in the pics.. Just watch yours :/ I don't know anything about her but if she doesnt want you to "get in the way" of the horses.. meh.
GOTTA GO :O

[cloedoll]

I totally get what you're saying. :) It's just hard when someone THINKS they're hurting you but they're not...I guess the best way I can express that though is just to not respond! xD

[cowgirlup@idaho]

I totally get what you're saying. :) It's just hard when someone THINKS they're hurting you but they're not...I guess the best way I can express that though is just to not respond! xD

There you go! Now you don't have to think 'defense' all the time! In time you will think it's ridiculous and funny that she continues to behave this way (keep it to yourself). You are on the edge of being in control of the situation, congratulations!

[FlapJack]

I'm sorry you're going through this :(. Girl's can be so ridiculous.
I guess the best thing to do is completely ice her out. If she happens to be at your house (ugh!) then you could either ignore her or be civil, but clearly she gets off on all this drama. I agree with whoever mentioned blocking her number. That will probably really annoy her. I'm guessing it's a jealousy issue...she likes your family, your horses, you...she's picking on the homeschool thing so maybe she doesn't like going to school.
Anyway, sorry you have to deal with her but good job on trying to stay the more mature person. Hopefully she grows out of this and after getting no responses from you will move on.

Oh, and I think it really sucks you don't have your family's support on this. I'd make sure to keep showing them all of these texts/myspace + yt crap/phone calls etc. It would be insane for them to still allow that girl in your home.

[cloedoll]

she's picking on the homeschool thing so maybe she doesn't like going to school.


That's another funny thing, she wanted to be cyberschooled with me! In fact, I'm pretty sure she is next year! Lmao...thanks for the post, it really helps to have support from you guys! :)

[Whitedresswind]

Hey, I remember all the trouble she put you through when you were neighbors. Its not fair that she treats you like this. I can imagine her being a bit... crazy. At least maybe you mom is beginning to understand.
I think it would be best to block her. She and you have better things to do anyways :)
Hope all goes well. Don't listen to any of her accusations, your an awesome possum.

[Tatesgram]

You've gotten some really good advice here, especially from cowgirlup@idaho, rayenn and shadyhill. Avoid her, ignore the calls and text until you can get her blocked. And if her name should come up, just get a look of pity on your face and shake your head. If you run in to her, don't engage, just give her the same look.

I had a similar situation years ago with a woman that wanted my life. In my case, I had to let her know I was not above violence to get her out of my life. Not recommending that to you, different circumstances. I think avoiding her and ignoring the calls and text is your best options.

[laredo454]

So that happens, and guess who texted me this morning? Yep, thee girl. She freaked otu on me AGAIN. I just told her to stop texting me and she went off again & she won't stop. GAHHH. I'm not even replying, she just keeps on texting. And I saw her MySpace last night, she has what a b!tch I am and how 'f'd' up I am allll over it, it's quite lovely so now I'm getting even more text messages from people I could care less about. :doh: And she said I was emo for being homeschooled, I'm just thinking, no, I'm homeschooled because I'm so fed up with this stupid girl crap! I got it all the time, much worse than this and I go to school to LEARN not to be told what a b!tch I am.

Oh and to make it better, my sister totally sides with this girl, she always has and she was yelling at me last night...I'm just thinking, you know what this chick has done to me and your MY sister, she should at least be there for me...I guess that's too much to ask?

OK if you read all that, thank you, if not, I feel better for just typing it all out. xD

WB -- sorry if this is inapproperiate or anything, I just saw a few other drama/advice threads and if anything, I just needed to vent..


Ahh she texted you again? When will she give up, geez. And now she has stuff on her myspace too?! She seems so nice in person too, haha. But oh remember when you came down to visit me the first time and she flipped crap on you for that and then I fought with her too? She likes it I think.

[cloedoll]

Ahh she texted you again? When will she give up, geez. And now she has stuff on her myspace too?! She seems so nice in person too, haha. But oh remember when you came down to visit me the first time and she flipped crap on you for that and then I fought with her too? She likes it I think.


Haha I gotta PM you, there's more that she said but I don't think I'd be allowed to post it. xD
yess i remember that! and she left that voicemail, "YOU BETTER CALL ME BACK, OR ELSE..." dun dun dun.

[WashingtonBay]

Howdy... I've only had time to just skim through, and because I see you've mentioned concerns about me a couple times, I'll just say, I don't have a problem with the content so far from a rules or moderation point of view...

I would just caution, because you are in public, that there are risks of putting all this out here. People have a way of finding out! Particularly internet savvy friends and ex friends who know where you hang out. And I'd hate for anything you posted to bite you in the butt.

But that said... I'm glad you're getting good advice about it. I'll read more thoroughly in a bit, when I have more time, but I think I've told you all before... teenage girls are monsters! :)

[cloedoll]

I was debating whether I should post this or not but she doesn't know about the forum, is horrible with computers/internet & the only internet site she goes on is the lovely MySpace. :D
They reallly are...except TAYLOR & the teens here! haha

[Gypsy Rose]

Not much I can say Caitlin, except what everyone else has said. You're the mature person here, and ignoring her and being civil is all you can do. aside from getting her number blocked, that is!

It's hard- trust me, I know!

[mare]

I would cut ties. And as far as my mother, etc. liking her, well... my family's friends are not necessarily my friends. Even the densest person eventually stops calling/texting when completely ignored.

I would set a boundary of no cyberschooling with this lil hiefer. My heels would be dug in and I wouldn't budge one inch. Even if she is not wacky, and you two have a "simple" personality conflict (though it doesn't sound like it, but if...) it would adversely affect your ability to learn and complete assignments.

[FlapJack]

and she left that voicemail, "YOU BETTER CALL ME BACK, OR ELSE..."

Scary :p

[FatSpottedAppy]

I'm so sorry I didn't get to this sooner, I was reading it in school but didn't get a chance to reply as I had to keep going back and doing my work inbetween reading segments of the post.

Man.. this girl is whacked! Unfortunately, there are quite a few drama queens that sound very much like that in our school.. She needs to chill out and get back to reality of what is called life. Can you block her number? This girl needs to be gonneee and I hope to god that she will leave you alone soon. You already put up with enough..

[cloedoll]

Aha, her MySpace no says:


call me a s***, w/e, 1 less person is not going to make a difference in my life, remember that next time something happenes and im not there. if calling me a slut makes u feel better about yourself then call me anything u want b****!


WOW! She has never ever been there for me, I never go to her, EVER. And when she would go all pyscho on me when we were "friends" that is what I'd tell her, call me whatever you want if it really makes you that happy...and I'm the mean spirited one and yet she's copying me? mmm..ok. lol.

[cloedoll]

I'm so sorry I didn't get to this sooner, I was reading it in school but didn't get a chance to reply as I had to keep going back and doing my work inbetween reading segments of the post.

Man.. this girl is whacked! Unfortunately, there are quite a few drama queens that sound very much like that in our school.. She needs to chill out and get back to reality of what is called life. Can you block her number? This girl needs to be gonneee and I hope to god that she will leave you alone soon. You already put up with enough..


Aw, no worries Morgan!

I know right? I got enough stuff to deal with, I don't need her adding onto those things, especially when I shouldn't have to deal with her! And I'm looking into blocking her number. :)

[prissy18]

Ignor her. I have girls like this in my life. I will talk to them until they get toxic then i will ignor then again. I wanna help them but i cant if they wont let me

[Toodlestoo]

Whoever said she was jealous and wants your life is right on target. You have always handled yourself with such maturity that I can't imagine you'd be any other way with this so-called friend. Even when you were dissed on Horse.com, you took the high road. I'd block her number and not worry about it. She's the one with issues, not you. Stay the sweet, intelligent, friendly girl that we know and love!:cowboy:

[allie0]

LOL, now she seems to think you depend on her?
Why would you go to share feelings with someone like her when I'm sure you have way more supportive friends, like laredo454 and us guys here on the forum.. Looks like she's got a lot of growing up to do..

Pretty much she's going to learn that she can't treat people like that in her life.. its pathetic.

Hope it all works out ^^