Update on my life

[menagerie]

I thought I would give you all an update since I did include you all in my saga. Those of you who saw my 'I'm depressed' thread know what I'm talking about. Anyways things did come to a head as I'm an Aries and can't keep my feelings or my mouth shut..... ever...!:innocent: So I did confront him with things again, we sort of worked things out I guess as he said he didn't really want a divorce and would work on things. He's been different the last few days but the real deal will be if he stays that way. Please send all the prayers, good vibes, ect my way as I really don't want to start over in that area of my life again either.

Thanks again to all that listened!

[Equine_Woman]

I'm glad to hear he is willing to work on it!! Hopefully it was a wake up call for the relationship and everything will be better!

[menagerie]

Yes we hope! He does have some good qualities he just picked what was most important to me to be bad.

[lovesfortune]

Glad to hear you guys talked about it and he is willing to make an effort. Sometimes when hubby and I are having issues we try to set aside one day a week where we can talk about it. Like every monday we'll sit down and say, "blah blah blah" and that way the little problems get taken care of weekly instead of building up and blowing up into a huge arguement. That way we don't have fights like, "Well 2 months ago you did this and I was mad" etc. You know?

I hope that you guys can work it out if you feel you can be happy in the relationship. If not, starting over will be worth it for your happiness. Good luck! Sending positive thoughts!

[starkitten]

Hope everything works out for you :) I'm keeping you in my thoughts...

[mandisue]

Glad things are hopefully working out, will pray that they stay that way. I know me and hubby have had some monster fights, I kept praying and we haven't fought in a while now.